tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2533081390118505617.post6061202267164366079..comments2016-07-18T11:25:32.445-07:00Comments on Honestly...: "But I'll be ok"elizabeth annhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09563578402165770062noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2533081390118505617.post-61075914129419519372012-02-07T07:48:42.661-08:002012-02-07T07:48:42.661-08:00Grief changes you. You can never go back to who y...Grief changes you. You can never go back to who you were because of what you know now. I had two major deaths in 2009 and still, in 2012, I am stricken by the grief. I tried counselling but it didn't work for me. I probably didn't give it enough but, like you, I feel that the more times I tell myself I'm okay, it will be true. <br /><br />It will never be true but eventually we learn to accept who we are now and keep the memories of who we were in the more simpler times.<br /><br />It is our life events that shape us into who we are and who we will be when our lives come to an end. Ann, you will never forget your mum but you will get to a place where you are able to live your life. Not a day will go by where you won't think of her but knowing that she taught you many things will help you be a great partner and mum in the future. She helped make you who you are yesterday, today and tomorrow.<br /><br />Your family is a key part of my childhood. Your mum was a kind and wonderful person. She was so caring to you and your friends. She was very talented. <br /> <br /><br />I love you and I want you to be "okay" :) You're my "twin" and when you hurt, I hurt. <br /><br />TarynUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11561749403833819029noreply@blogger.com